So Kiss Me :*

How important is it to kiss someone? What if you never do and never feel the need to? Does it mean you're not attracted enough to the person? Was Andy Warhol correct when he had said that when it doesn't happen it makes everything more exciting?

I believe that kissing someone not only shows you're attracted, but it also shows a certain affection towards that individual. I am not talking about the full on washing_machine_tongue_down_someones_throat kissing, apart from the fact that I am NOT a fan of that, I'm plainly saying, going up to a friend and just planting a peck on their lips and hugging them tightly. Granted, I'm not going to do it to everyone or just anybody but is it really that bad? Since when do we live in a world where a kiss means sex?
Now, I am not someone who just spreads affection around believe me, I'm your typical cold person who refuses to speak to someone if she doesn't like them. But over the part months I keep finding myself having these arguments with people who just assume that just because a person kissed them, then the person is physically attracted to them. Could it be that this person is just looking for some affection you just happened to be standing in the way?? Could it be that this person really thinks you're an amazing person and just wanted to show you just how much you mean to them??

Bottom line is, there are kisses and then there are Kisses. Learn to tell the difference.

When you kiss a person because you find them adorable or just entertaining, the kiss is light, not laden with heavy emotions or romance and normally it wouldn't even involve a tongue at all. So please tell the difference and don't go walking around bragging that someone kissed you if they didn't. 

You might be asking yourself what brought this on...hahhaha well apart from the discussions I mentioned previously, it's also a few articles I came across in some of my teenage magazines that I cleaned out this morning nicely titled "9 types of kisses decoded", "Learn how he feels from his Kisses" and "Is he in love? His kisses will tell you what you need to know". I mean, really?? First thing that all these articles say it that if he kisses you he likes you, he wants you blah blah blah.
At this age where you've seen them all and kissed all the frogs who never turned into Princes you will learn that A) everyone kisses in a different way and the only place a first kiss will be absolutely perfect is in fairy tales and Hollywood movies B) when the person is not into you anymore he WILL kiss differently and C) if you want to know how a person feels about you, ASK THEM!!!
I'd say that's simple enough.

One last plea I have, and I know people who know me are thinking it, I am not being pessimistic, I'm being realistic. 


“The mouth is made for communication, and nothing is more articulate than a kiss.” 
― Jarod Kintz